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A Tooth Soaps Giveaway!

August 20, 2010 - 12:41 AM

Yes, you heard that right: tooth soaps. For those of you stopping by for the first time I am indeed "that kind of crazy"!

Before we get to the giveaway (Hooray!), let's chat about what you'll be winning and answer some questions. Shall we?

What is tooth soap? It's exactly what you're imagining it to be. It's soap that you use for your teeth. Why would anybody do a crazy thing like that, you ask? I think the question you should be asking is why would anyone in their right mind put fluoride, glycerin, sodium lauryl sulfates, food dyes, and a whole host of other unimaginables in their mouth, let alone their children's mouthes!

Let's look at a couple of the ingredients I just mentioned.

Fluoride seems a good one to start with. I am not going to go into very much detail (we'll save that for another, less riled up night!) right now, but here's a little info to mull over. Fluoride is a known mood and behavior alterer. It was used as such in Nazi prison camps and by Soviets. It was used specifically to sterilize the inmates and make them docile. It's a key ingredient in Prozac, rat poison, and nerve gas. It has NEVER been approved by the FDA for human consumption. I don't know about you, but I have yet to meet a kid who doesn't swallow at least a little bit of their toothpaste. Especially if it's flavored of bubblegum! 

Moving on now to glycerin. This one is the hardest one to avoid even in "safe" toothpastes in my experience. Why should we avoid it? It doesn't do us any favors. It takes twenty rinses to remove it from our teeth while it only takes two to remove soap. Twenty rinses! Why do we want it rinsed off? If it stays nicely coated on our teeth then the calcium and phosphate in the food we eat can't penetrate. It prevents remineralization of your teeth via your saliva. We can all use some of that!

Sodium Lauryl Sulfates are the ingredients which make you foam and froth during brushing. Fun, I know, but we don't want SLS in any product which will come into contact with our skin as the American College of Toxicology has reported it to be quite corrosive and harmful to skin tissue. Eeks! My gums don't need that! 

I'll just quickly touch on the topic of food dyes in toothpaste as I know you want to move on to good news. It's not here, I can assure you! The dyes used in toothpastes are coal dyes and long known to be carcinogenic and mutagenic. Your son may at times seem to have the energy of Wolverine, but you don't want him turning into him, do you? Okay, fine, maybe you do, but you get my point.

The Physicians Desk Reference teaches us that the mucus lining of the mouth can absorb with 90% efficiency meaning that all the toxins going into your mouth are getting absorbed into your blood stream whether you swallow the toothpaste or not. Bummer.

Please cue the music for our hero's entry: It's ToothSoap! Hooray!

Your first thought may be "I don't care if this stuff is better for you, I would hate rubbing soap all over my tongue".

I understand. I used bad words as a child also... Oh, wait. You don't think you'll like it. I see. Not a "from personal experience" share. Forget I said anything. This is not your mothers soap bar. Not that there's anything wrong with that one. It would work too, just maybe not as well and it sure wouldn't taste as nice. Believe me! 

According to Dr. Judd, the author of Good Teeth, Birth to Death, "brushing with soap washes oils off the teeth and disinfects the gums, with the bacteria being killed by the soap". Hip, hip, hooray!

When I decided to give tooth soap a try I looked at the options and there are a few good ones! The trouble I came across though was that I wanted it to not break the bank and I wanted to be able to share with the rest of the family. Most of the tooth soaps I found came in little boxes for you to dip your wet brush in. I would not be willing to share that with anyone else and I am not sure I would even want to go back after too many days! The perfect solution for me was to buy it in a tube. I found a wonderful Etsy shop called Beautiful Soaps'. She offered Pearly White Teeth, a soap for teeth in a little chapstick tube which I found to be the perfect size and price for a family trial. 

                                                tooth soap

The ingredient list is simple yet effective: olive, coconut, and palm oils, peppermint, spearmint, and orange essential oils, anise, cinnamon, orange and lemon extracts, xylitol (go here to read some exciting benefits of this one!), vitamin e, and aluminum free baking soda. 

The way we use it is we just wet our toothbrushes, swipe them across the top of the tube and then, personally, I swipe it across the back of my hand to clean it off for the next person. As I don't trust my three year old or husband to be performing the same courtesy, I swipe my hand before I swipe my brush as well. At this point, in theory, we all have our own tube, but ya know how that goes! (Erik says he doesn't want to brush his teeth with the back of my hand. There's no pleasing some people!)

                                               soap bowl

The soap taste is not offensive at all to any of us. The Lady enjoys the excuse to spit and even without the SLS, it foams up quite comfortingly! It leaves my teeth SO SMOOTH! Even Mr. Picky has no complaints of its teeth cleaning abilities and that's saying A LOT! I love it. True story.

I have purchased from Beautiful Soaps' Store twice now and have always been quite pleased with the promptness of delivery. i have yet to receive an order without there being an extra goody in my bag either! Let me tell you: The Sweet Pea soap is a favorite around here!

Heather Rai, of Beautiful Soaps', has graciously agreed to give three of my readers a chance to try a Pearly White Teeth soap of their own! I am so excited that I'm going to throw in a fourth, Grand Prize if you will, from Heathers shop: two tubes of Pearly White Teeth soap, a tube of Peppermint Shimmer Lip Balm (I love this stuff!), and a bar of soap of your choosing! THat's right, FOUR winners!

Here's how to enter:

****************Giveaway is now closed. Thanks to all who entered!*****************

Please leave a separate comment for each entry!

1. Mandatory entry: Go to Beautiful Soaps' Shop and look around! Come back here, and in the comments tell me what soap you'd pick if you won!

2. Subscribe here at We Are Of The Day. Then leave a comment telling me that you did!

3. Blog about this giveaway with a link back here. Leave a comment with a link to your blog telling me that you did it!

4. Share this giveaway on Facebook or Twitter and again- come leave a comment for an extra entry!

Winners will be drawn on Friday the 27th at 9am central time.

That's it! Four chances to win one of Four Prizes! May the most in need mouths win! Ha!

Just in case you were curious, I am in no way being compensated for this giveaway and was not paid for my review. Just so ya know!

This post is a part of Things I Love Thursday, Simple Lives Thursday, Family Food Fridays, I'm lovin' It, Pennywise Platter,

Fight Back Friday, Monday Mania, Gluten Free Wednesday, Real Food Wednesdays, Frugality is Free, .

Response to A Tooth Soaps Giveaway!

  • Toni said on August 20, 2010 - 6:12 AM

    Hi Ambre, I came across your post on Simple Lives Thursday at GNOWFGLINS. Tooth soap sounds very interesting! This is the first time that I have actually checked into it. Let's see, if I won I guess I'd choose the Dead Sea Spa Energizing and Uplifting Bar (but there are so many interesting ones to choose from)

  • Toni said on August 20, 2010 - 6:18 AM

    Hey Ambre, Here with my second comment. I just subscribed! Looking forward to updates from your site. And I do not blog (as of yet anyway) so I won't be able to link up with this giveaway, and I no longer am on facebook so I can't help you there either. Have a blessed and highly favored day in the Lord! Toni

  • Angela said on August 20, 2010 - 9:47 AM

    Although "The Munchies" bars are beautiful, I've been making my own laundry soap for awhile now and would rather have "Hunk O Soap - Create Your Own Laundry Soap" because I'm always looking for a good bar soap to use in my mix! hippieingeeksclothing.wordpress.com/

  • Angela said on August 20, 2010 - 10:39 AM

    Here's the link to my blog post: http://hippieingeeksclothing.wordpress.com/2010/08/20/tooth-soap/

  • Angela said on August 20, 2010 - 10:43 AM

    Ok, The Facebook link is in, too.

  • Angela said on August 20, 2010 - 10:45 AM

    And now you're in my Google Reader!

  • Jessica said on August 20, 2010 - 11:13 AM

    Hello fellow Etsian! I am very intrigued by this "tooth soap". I must admit that it is the first time I have ever heard of such thing...which makes me all the more eager to try it! I browsed your beautiful shop, added you as a shop fav (I am "Chi Finds") and caught myself drooling over your Patchouli Oil with French Green Clay and Aloe Vera soap! Fun give away idea and hope you have a wonderful day! -Jessica aka Chi

  • Jessica said on August 20, 2010 - 11:16 AM

    Ah ha! I somehow missed that this is not your creation...I blame a lack of morning tea for my misunderstanding! :) from .ambre.: no problem! I hope you found some tea time! :)

  • Debby said on August 20, 2010 - 12:07 PM

    New to your site, found you on the blog hop ' Simple Lives Thursday ' at Sustainable Eats. I checked out the site, a lot of interesting things. I've always wondered if those handmade versions worked as well as store bought ones. Anyway, if I win I think that I'd like to try the "Gernaium Rose with White Rose & Red Clay" soap. I just love the description about pampering yourself. Thanks so much. Debby

  • Heather said on August 20, 2010 - 12:22 PM

    Thanks so much Ambre for blogging about my "Pearly White Teeth". I love the information you've shared! I'm a long time fan of "Please don't kill me via chemicals!" The makers of the official "Tooth Soap" are very particular in their requests to not have anyone use the word "Tooth and Soap" together in the same breath :-) mine is called P.W.T. but you can brush your teeth with any plain old, natural, unscented, soap and get the same effect. Good luck to everyone on the giveaway! My best, Heather Rai http://www.BeautifulSoaps.Etsy.com

  • .ambre. said on August 20, 2010 - 12:36 PM

    THanks for pointing that out! I'll make some adjustments above. :)

  • jamie said on August 20, 2010 - 2:39 PM

    ambre, if I win I would hands down choose the Dead Sea Spa Bar simply for its beauty. If I don't win (and this is not a threat) I will simply try out the P.W.T. when I move in with you :) .ambre. says : I totally agree that it is so gorgeous!

  • sis alison said on August 20, 2010 - 2:40 PM

    haha. this is cute. very cool too!! the soap i would choose is Herbal Facial Bar with White Kaolin Clay and Carrot Juice. sweet! lol. :D

  • sis alison said on August 20, 2010 - 2:46 PM

    uh, the giveaway is my facebook status. lol.

  • sis alison said on August 20, 2010 - 2:47 PM

    also, i was already a subscriber so not sure if this counts as another entry or not.

  • April said on August 20, 2010 - 3:11 PM

    Thanks for putting this up-for a while now I have been thinking about flouride and knowing it isn't the greatest thing to put in my mouth and body but not knowing what else to use instead. Thanks for telling us about this great product. If I were to win the soap I would pick would be Citrus Essential Oil Blend with Mango Butter-I LOVE citrus in my soaps-I am close to addicted to that scent! Thanks again Ambre!

  • April said on August 20, 2010 - 3:13 PM

    I am subscribed now too!

  • April said on August 20, 2010 - 3:14 PM

    And now I posted something on FB. Whoo hoo for 3 entries!

  • Patricia said on August 20, 2010 - 5:34 PM

    I just have to have the Unmentionable soap for reasons I won't go into. hehehe Thanks.

  • Mom said on August 20, 2010 - 7:13 PM

    Way cool! My choice: Lemon-grass Poppyseed with French Yellow Clay

  • Mom said on August 20, 2010 - 7:14 PM

    I am subscribed!!! yeah!!!

  • Mom said on August 20, 2010 - 7:20 PM

    I posted it! YEAH!!!

  • Blakely said on August 20, 2010 - 7:43 PM

    I'd get the apple soap, because I think it would smell delicious!!

  • Blakely said on August 20, 2010 - 7:45 PM

    I posted this on Facebook.

  • Lindsay Hill said on August 20, 2010 - 11:08 PM

    Vanilla with Shea Cocoa and Mango Butter--sounds good enough to eat!

  • Lindsay Hill said on August 20, 2010 - 11:08 PM

    subscribed in Google reader

  • Cathy Payne said on August 21, 2010 - 6:34 AM

    Great soaps! Hard to choose, but I like the "unmentionable" lavender bar.

  • cathy Payne said on August 21, 2010 - 6:39 AM

    I tweeted! Our Natural Life ONL2 http://weareoftheday.com/tooth-soap-giveaway- Free handmade soaps!

  • Lori said on August 21, 2010 - 12:47 PM

    I would pick the calendula soap, I think. There are so many nice ones its hard to just pick one.

  • Lori said on August 21, 2010 - 12:50 PM

    I just subscribed

  • Erin said on August 21, 2010 - 2:25 PM

    Love the Almond Cold Pressed Soap, and would love to try the tooth soap - neat, never heard of it!!

  • Erin said on August 21, 2010 - 2:37 PM

    I just blogged about it! http://lifeofmilkhoney.blogspot.com/2010/08/another-cool-giveaway.html

  • Sharon Mercer said on August 21, 2010 - 3:09 PM

    Amazing. Toothpaste is next on my list of what to figure out how to make natural--so glad that others are figuring it out ahead of me! I subscribed!

  • sharon said on August 21, 2010 - 3:10 PM

    I FB-ed it!

  • sharon said on August 21, 2010 - 3:10 PM

    I browsed! I would love to try the Raspberry Black Coconut Soap. Yumm. It is making me hungry!

  • Blakely said on August 22, 2010 - 8:12 AM

    I blogged about it here: http://mamamort.wordpress.com/2010/08/22/tooth-soaps-giveaway/

  • Blakely said on August 22, 2010 - 8:13 AM

    I also subscribed to your blog.

  • Shelley said on August 22, 2010 - 11:58 AM

    I would love to try your tooth soap. My daughter has braces and wheb she gets them tightened, regular tooth paste causes her intense pain. Also I like the White Magnolia soap. If it smells like magnolias it would remind me of my aunts home in North Carolina. She had a tree in her back yard and when it bloomed she would float some blossoms in a crystal bowl of water. Unfortunalty Aunt I passed from breast cancer. I remeber you always and especially when I smell magnolias!

  • Alexis said on August 22, 2010 - 8:06 PM

    I came across your post on Simple Lives Thursday at GNOWFGLINS. Tooth soap sounds very interesting! I have heard of it before but hadnt gotten around to researching more about it. If I had to pick it would be the Peppermint Shimmer Lip Tint with Peppermint EO.

  • Alexis said on August 22, 2010 - 8:12 PM

    I just subscribed to your blog via Google Reader!

  • Alexis said on August 22, 2010 - 8:13 PM

    I just tweeted the link to this giveaway on my Twitter page! (I dont have a blog otherwise I would have done that too!)

  • Amy said on August 23, 2010 - 6:48 PM

    I would choose the Patchouli Oil with French Green Clay and Aloe Vera soap. I LOVE Patchouli! I love tooth soap too. I've used another brand and I'm very anxious to try Heather's.

  • Amy said on August 23, 2010 - 6:51 PM

    I subscribed! :)

  • Amy said on August 23, 2010 - 6:57 PM

    I just linked to your post on facebook!

  • Mary L said on August 23, 2010 - 8:14 PM

    I would choose the Green Tea Avocado Soap! It sounds heavenly, thank you for posting all the educational information concerning toothpastes. All the soaps on your blog look wonderful. My family and I are trying to go more natural with everything we use on a daily basis. I will definitely subscribe if I can figure out how to do so. hehe. Mary L

  • Angela said on August 24, 2010 - 10:27 PM

    I'd love to try the Shea Baby Soap. I can't wait to try the tooth soap! Great idea!

  • Stephanie said on August 25, 2010 - 5:48 PM

    Hi! Not wanting to enter the giveaway, just saying thanks for the info. I've been interested in switching to fluoride free toothpaste for awhile and I will definitely try these.

  • LaRee said on August 25, 2010 - 9:01 PM

    I'd choose the Lavender Tea Tree Mint, what a great combination of herbs!!

  • Kelsey said on August 25, 2010 - 9:17 PM

    Avocado mint soap sounds wonderful! Love this giveaway idea!

  • Kelsey said on August 25, 2010 - 9:18 PM

    Subscribed--although I already was.

  • Kelsey said on August 25, 2010 - 10:37 PM

    I posted about the giveaway on my blog: http://mrsdexter.wordpress.com/2010/08/25/pearly-white-teeth/

  • Kelsey said on August 25, 2010 - 10:39 PM

    Facebooking link = completed.

  • . said on August 26, 2010 - 2:51 AM

    Do you understand how condescending it is to imply that a person is not in their right mind for using toothpaste or (gasp) making their kids use toothpaste? Toothpaste. Really. Do whatever you want, seriously. If you prefer the soap thing, do it. But don't call me crazy for doing what you have done your whole life up until you recently read a random article that mentioned Nazis and chemicals and scared you. I'm not the one exchanging an FDA certified product for something off a random etsy site that a stranger produced under no regulations in their basement. From .ambre. : I am sorry you were offended. I was not speaking ill of people who do, I was more speaking to the sadness that we as a society are not better informed as to what the FDA is approving for us to put into our body. This is also not just pulled from one article, but is just the TIP OF THE ICEBERG of years and years worth of studies. I'm guessing you don't want to be entered in the giveaway?

  • Heidi said on August 26, 2010 - 9:42 AM

    So interesting! I have been thinking about tooth soap quite a bit lately! I would choose the Sueno Narcotico - Narcotic Dream soap....seems interesting as well!

  • Heidi said on August 26, 2010 - 9:50 AM

    subscribed

  • Linda said on August 27, 2010 - 8:06 AM

    I would like to try the toothsoap. Right now I am using Tom's of Maine fluoride free, but it does have sodium lauryl sulfate.

  • leah said on August 27, 2010 - 8:32 AM

    interesting idea! i think i would choose shae baby :)

  • alex@amoderatelife said on August 29, 2010 - 5:33 PM

    Wow, tooth soap! Who knew? I loved the handmade soaps on this website especially the lavender hemp rounds! Thanks for visiting the two for tuesday recipe blog hop. I tweeted this entry for you. alex@amoderatelife

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All Good Things Come To An End...

Posted on Mon Feb 7 18:45:00 CST 2011 by Ambre  |  Comments (6)

I have moved. 

Not physically, but in cyberspace. This blog has moved to LivingAsOfTheDay.Com.

I've really enjoyed being here, but I am completely computer illiterate, My Cousin was helping me with the changes I needed to make around here, but he's in college and not available as often as I would like. As a result, I moved somewhere I felt was dummied down to my level. :)

Please move with me! I would hate it if this meant the end of our internet friendship!

See you there!

 

.ambre,

My People Are Destroyed From Lack Of Knowledge: Soda

Posted on Mon Nov 29 15:40:19 CST 2010 by Ambre  |  Comments (31)

Soda isn't all it's cracked up to be...

soda

A Child's Prayer

Posted on Tue Nov 2 15:34:08 CDT 2010 by Ambre  |  Comments (4)

For the past three weeks I have been going next door at bed time and individually praying for the children sleeping there. Most nights it's for just four of them, but some nights all six are there. It has been an incredible experience.

Since I see them all all afternoon, by the time it's their turn to be prayed over, I am aware of specific struggles they are having that I can lift up for them. It's just a quiet moment between the two of us and God before they sleep and it's been having a supernatural calming effect on some very tightly wound and wounded children! 

Erik and I have been praying for our Miss N.'s two boys since we moved in two years ago. We were specifically asking God that they would put their trust in Him for salvation while they were still young.

Last week, God said, "Yes."

Praise the Lord! God is faithful to His promises. He says, in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek Me and find Me when you seek me with all your heart." These boys have been seeking and God's Word did not come back void! Wednesday night they both chose to put their trust in the God Who had given His Son so that they could spend eternity with Him!

This has greatly changed our nightly prayer ritual. For starters, instead of asking God to bring them to His throne of grace, now we are seeking Him to shine Truth into their hearts and to speak to the lies currently residing there. They also don't just want to be recipients any more! Their mother confided that they had started praying over her and asking God to reveal Himself to her. Are you moved yet? I pray so!

Last night was one of the best nights of my life since I chose to give my life to Christ. Let me tell you about it...

These have been some crazy past few weeks.

Physically, I have been stretched to far outside of my comfort zone, way beyond my natural talent level, and all on little sleep.

Spiritually, I have been praying more than I ever have before because I can see and feel the battles being waged for the souls around me. I have watched God bring three, possibly four, of the people we have been serving, in the last six days alone to His throne where He wrote their names in His Book in His Son's blood. 

Emotionally, this has been a battle. I am an introvert who loves to manage people and has a real burden for hurting kids. I will repeat though: I am an introvert. Being front and center from when I rise to when I collapse at night hearing my name chanted by the masses of needy children is overwhelming, but I serve a big God. Way bigger than my limitations and as I tell the kids, "When I am weak, He is strong", to which they quickly point out, "But, He's always strong!". Exactly.

Yesterday, during nap time, I sat down with Miss A. to go over with her what her oldest son had signed up for at the church retreat the day before when trusting in Jesus. I've been answering her questions for weeks now and going over a lot of Scripture, so I just felt led to lay it all out, in order, and ask her if she wanted to make a decision for Jesus as Lord. It was a great conversation and at the end of it, she put her trust in God and not in man.

Praise the Lord. You are a good God.

By bedtime, I was feeling beat. I just wanted to pray for the kids and go home and sleep! As I walked into the room and knelt down on the bed, my neighbor's youngest (8) jumped towards me asking if he could pray for me tonight. I just felt so loved by that request! 

"I would love to be prayed for! Thank you!", I answered. He and his brother knelt in front of me and he drew a cross on my forehead as we bowed our heads.

"Dear God, thank you for Ambre and for her teaching us about You and Your love from the Bible. Please keep teaching her about You when she reads her Bible so that she can keep learning stuff to teach to us. Amen."

I melted. I just felt surrounded by Angels and the Holy Spirit in that moment, I can't even begin to describe it. I felt so blessed.

His prayer was such a beautiful reflection of his desire to learn more about the Lord and proof of how far God has brought him in such a short time. The first time he prayed after Erik finished Bible time a couple weeks ago was a request for more money than any of us and included a rump wiggling dance. God truly has grabbed his heart!

Thank you to those of you who have been lifting our family up in prayer. You too are swinging a sword in this war.

 

His servant,

ambre

 

When The Mission Field Comes To You

Posted on Tue Oct 19 08:49:57 CDT 2010 by Ambre  |  Comments (4)

Erik and I have really been feeling a burden for missions of late. We both have made passing comments about the fact that we may end up on the foreign mission field while our kids are still young. I'll say something about going to a Third World Country, he'll respond with a quip about how the Third World may be coming to us and then we'll go on with our day. Neither of us anticipated our family taking on full time missions, but it seems the Lord was preparing our hearts for just that. 

Our next door neighbor is an agnostic single mother of adopted sons. She, Miss N., has a real soft spot for people down on their luck and always seems to have some other single Mom hanging around that she's hired to do light housekeeping because she knows they can really use the funds. Her newest project was a nice lady, Miss A., who's son was in the same class as Miss N.'s eldest. I met Miss A. in passing a couple weeks ago, but hadn't spoken to her since. Our Little Lady saw Miss A.'s twin six year old girls outside on Monday of last week and wanted to join them so I went out as well to say hello. We ended up talking for awhile and I felt led to invite her to come and sit with me during the day instead of sitting alone next door while Miss N. was at work. This is the response I received:

"Oh, yeah, that would be great. Are you and your husband like, really religious or, you know, super religious like?"

I had to chuckle since a "yes" answer could mean all sorts of things: super religious cause I'm a bond servant of Christ, super religious and I dance around bond fires with goat heads, or super religious and ready to go on a neighborhood jihad? See what I mean? Very broad question.

"We both have relationships with Jesus" I offered.

"Great! Then when i come over can you pray for me?"

Praise the Lord. How often does that happen to you? To me: never before. Within 24 hours, I was doing a Beginning in Christ Bible Study with the Mother and reading Children's theology and teaching memory verses to Miss A. and Miss N.'s five youngest children. I am now shepherding a total of seven young hearts (including the two born of my womb) every afternoon until bedtime with my amazing husband. It's complete insanity, but God is moving mightily. I doubt it will be too many more days before the questions these eight to ten year old boys are throwing at me about God and His Word surpass my ability to fathom an answer to. They truly are seeking to get at the heart of God. 

Please keep my family in your prayers as we move into this new season. Miss A. and company have now moved in with Miss N. and her duo for an unknown length of time. The Lord knows though, and He has certainly put us here for such a time as this...

Matthew 11:25-26

At that time Jesus said, "I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth,

because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned,

and revealed them to little children. Yes, Father, for this was your good pleasure."

 

 

Where's The Love?

Posted on Fri Oct 1 16:11:52 CDT 2010 by Ambre  |  Comments (0)

I am not a fan of playing catch-up. I would say I hate it, except that that could almost be interpreted as "I hate my life" seeing as how the majority of my life appears to be spent running after the proverbial bus. 

                               lady Rider   

Erik was sick as a dog over the weekend, as was our poor Baby Girl. My Mom and Dad were in town as were my wonderful  in-laws. My Mother-in-law and I went to two fantastic sessions on Anti-Aging and Weight Loss by a world renowned Physician on Saturday. Sunday was church and a delicious brunch at Iowa River Power Company with my pa rents sans the sicky, Erik. This was all on top of a trip last week to Peoria for an orchard visit with my Aunt Gloris and sister followed by an unexpected drive to Fort Madison for my dear Great Aunt Bernice's visitation after her death on Monday.

Weeks like that tend to leave me feeling quite overwhelmed and unsure where to even start digging myself out when it comes to caring for our home. Today I was clearing off a burner on the stove to make breakfast (before giving up and handing our Lara Bars). I was wallowing a bit in discouragement when the Lady said "Wow, Mom! This window is really clean!" I looked over to find her admiring the dining room window base. I guess she was expecting dead bugs and dust, but I had vacuumed it out last week. I was lifted in my spirits to have my daughter notice this little corner of tidy and to have remarked on it.

"Yeah, Honey? I'm glad! Mommy did that."

"No, you didn't" I was corrected, "Miss Navy did." 

"No, Honey, it was Mommy."

"Nope, Miss Navy". And with that, she sauntered off. 

I'm sorry, but someone needs to give this child a reality check! When a Mommy does something... anything!... she should be graciously thanked. In a perfect world, the credit for a job well done does not go to the IMAGINARY FRIEND! Hrmph!

I wouldn't be so put offended if it weren't for the fact that I think the Little Lady actually believes it! Every day at nap time I'm told Miss Navy is staying up to help me clean. I guess she was just sure this was some of Miss Navy's handiwork.

I wish! It's about time Miss Navy started pulling her own weight around here... 

 
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